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Saturday, 28 August 2021
Coaching Book which has helped me a lot?
I have been reading a book for the last few days. The name of the book is
The Tao of Coaching: Boost Your Effectiveness at Work by Inspiring and Developing Those Around You by Max Landsberg
This best-selling classic was originally published by HarperCollins in 1996, and is practical, pragmatic, and - like most perfect ideas - seems to be presenting the obvious.
This book is written like a short story and aimed at managers who choose to develop themselves as coaches and mentors.
It gives brief and precise information about the coaching process, the motivation of employees, earning trust as a coach, and mentoring.
It is an incredibly short read, we can finish the book in a couple of hours.
The reader observes the progress of a young manager, Alex, as he strolls his progress through an organization, learning valuable coaching lessons along the way.
Each chapter focuses on a specific area of coaching, which is then summarized in a textbook format at the end of the chapter.
This book has just 117 pages! an extremely simple and marvelous book for Coaching.
Awesome book about coaching others. The practices may be useful for coaching our self as well. The volume is magnificent because of several reasons:
1. It is brief. Really. 117+ pages about everything we require about coaching.
2. It is intensely practical - each chapter has tested and “hands-on” suggestions we can implement in our career.
3. It is descriptive - each chapter has an awesome before-picture which sets up the reader’s desire for the later chapter. And what is indeed more magnificent - the book is one story about a gentleman in a company and his challenges throughout his career. Good dialogues and stories will make us remember.
Take-Aways
Good coaching means enabling employees to reach at results with direction, not instructing them what to look at.
Coaching yields pay off to the coach, consisting of a better customer and client relationships, a stronger team, a better ardent following, and enhanced self-awareness.
Effective feedback sticks to specific observable facts according to the acronym “AID”: “Actions,” their “Impact” and the “Desired” outcome.
Organize your coaching session according to the GROW acronym: “Goal, Reality, Options, Wrap up.”
Tailor your coaching style to fit an employee’s “skill and will to accomplish the task.”
Determine what factor most motivates your employee and build on it.
Focus your coaching on the Organization's strategic and operational objectives.
If you are being coached, don’t ever get defensive, just express gratitude, and do what the coach says.
Take “voluntary, visible, irrevocable, and specific” steps to accomplish your goal.
When coaching higher-ups, remain positive for the initial few sessions.
20 Lessons
1. “You Can’t Be a Leader Without a Following”
2. “Ask Questions – Don’t Just Tell”
3. “Receiving Feedback Means Active Listening”
4. “Coaching Also Benefits the Coach”
5. “Guide – Don’t Judge – When Coaching”
6. “Organize Your Coaching Sessions Well – Start in the Correct Direction”
7. “Great Teams Overcome Differences in Styles of Working”
8. “Overcome Your Coaching Blocks, or You Will Never Delegate”
9. “Instant Payoff’ Coaching Can Work, Though Only If Delivered Well”
10. Evaluate “Will, Not Just Skill”
11. When an Employee Hesitates, “First Build Trust”
12. “You Can’t Motivate Others if They Can’t See You”
13. “Take Time to Anticipate Cultural Differences”
14. “Know How to Set Up Teams Well”
15. “Use the Power of Questions that Reframe”
16. “Coaches Work with Observable Facts, Not Just ‘Gut Feel’’’
17. “Providing ‘Upward’ Feedback to the Boss Can Have Its Benefits”
18. “Become Eloquent in the Language of Setting Goals”
19. “Mentor Someone and Be Mentored”
20. “The Effects of Your Coaching Can Be Even More Powerful than You Imagine”
Please add if I have missed anything. Let us follow through and create an impact in people's life.
Thursday, 22 April 2021
Sunday, 7 February 2021
Effective Feedback: Are We doing Enough?
UnCoachability!!
How to identify the individual in uncoachable?
Have you come across in your coaching engagement some individuals who are uncoachable, after several attempts those individuals will not transform a bit!
How do you identify the uncoachable aspects?
"Coaching is 90% attitude and 10% technique." - Unknown
An uncoachable individual will demonstrate below symptom
a) Coachable individuals are humble and understand the utility of seeking absolute Truths. They embrace ambiguity, uncertainty. The uncoachable individual pretense that they know everything.
b) Coachable people will be curious and willing to learn is remarkably high. The uncoachable individual always considers that they already know it! They are not susceptible to experimenting with anything fresh or eager to learn in nominal.
c) Coachable people recognize that expertise comes solely through practice, and failure is part of learning. In a process, the coachable people built resilience. Uncoachable people fear failure, fear criticism so they will not try anything new, as well they will not fail!!
d) Coachable individuals own their learning. They take accountability for their prosperity & growth but uncoachable people do not think similar. They will not seek something different, so they will not be able to pick up anything new. They will not take accountability for their advancement.
e) Uncoachable individuals do not show gratitude. They do not appreciate it when they receive help from others. They mostly think about themselves and never think about others.
f) Uncoachable people never consider they are responsible for any outcome, they find fault in others and mostly say others, that others are responsible for the situation.
g) Uncoachable people get defensive and upset when confronted with the smallest piece of constructive criticism.
h) Uncoachable individuals are not thoroughly self-aware. They are not aware of their strengths and weaknesses. They are not enthusiastic to improve the gaps as they are not self-aware. They do not want to change or accept any feedback. They are emotionally weak.
i) Uncoachable people are not ready to become vulnerable. They will not accept that they are worthy. They feel that they will not be able to handle the situation.
j) Fear is a natural and essential part of learning and growth. Uncoachable individuals will not go out of their comfort zone. Their anxiety will be so high which will stop them to try something new.
The “un-coachable” individual is mostly a finger pointer, blaming teammates, organizational policies, weather conditions, or even the alignment of the sun, moon, and stars whenever things go awry!
Deep down, the “uncoachable” Individuals, is an emotionally wounded child.
Saturday, 6 February 2021
Sunday, 20 December 2020
Happy Holiday Sale!!
Thanks for preferring my books! My readers are buying daily one copy of my books! I am grateful to all of you to show up confidence about these products and affirming these products are offering value to your career! Thanks for spreading the products......I know many of my readers recommended to read my books to others….
Monday, 16 November 2020
Negative Emotions: How to deal with Team Coaching?
Sunday, 8 November 2020
Farmer Family Performance appraisal in a Village!
Once upon a time there was a farmer, his name was Panduraja!
He has 5 children, Jhooti, Bheema, Arjoona, Nakooola, Shooyaya!
Some of them are educated, some are only matriculation pass!
They had multiple acres of farming land. They have a large house with ponds and many domestic animals to looks after. Initially, they had a struggling life but over a period of time, they stabilized themselves.
But the Farmer Panduraja was in worry! Every year they discussed how they should share their profit. They have their own family but they reside together on the same premises. Most of the initial year they had a quarrel and tussle with the money distribution.
They had an expert professional friend who also happens to be their distant relatives and well-wisher. His name was Kris, who is a Ph.D. in Agriculture and professor HOD in a nearby college.
Every year this is a nightmare challenge for Panduraja,
How can he distribute the profit among his children so that they stay motivated and energized.
They should not break up their property and leave the premises where they reside together.
Panduraja often chats with Kris. Kris recommended using the Bell curve system to distribute wealth and profit.
Kris read that somewhere, and they tried for a few years. But it did not work out as it created a quarrel and division among his children.
All his children are working for a common goal. Their proficiency is different, and core competencies are diversified.
Nakooola was remarkably talented at selling the crops, milk, eggs, and poultry meat.
Jhooti was excellent at cultivating lands and growing crops.
Bheema takes care of distributing the cattle, goats to the city, and buying and selling those.
Shooyaya was taking care of the farming, fishing, and exporting fishery commodities.
Jhooti also was taking care of the account part with his father and track the balance sheet.
Everyone is contributing to some of the other aspects and occasionally when crops fail but other services take care of their profits.
All the five brothers do daily standup and monthly progress with the Panduraja.
They reskill themselves as the market changes, need changes. Ther wife also takes care of the textile and other handlooms, handmade items e.g. pottery, etc.
The million-dollar question is how do Panduraja distribute the prosperity which will cause everyone happy?
Kris comes out with One team approach where there will not be any bell but team outcome with impact-driven measurement. They have to increase the outcome and strengthen the bottom line. Based on the numerous feedback mechanisms from various stakeholders, the final amount will differ. Their fundamental wealth distribution calculation is more or less fixed, the % variation of wealth distribution is not substantial. There will be a special monitory award for exceptional performance.
e.g. once there was a bumper production of Mango and Nakoola could export mangoes abroad with his contact at a special price. That attempt has fetched significant profit, and he got special monetary gain. Due to crop failure one year, everyone takes the loss amount, but due to the fish & poultry market, they could all get the benefit of this.
They watch out on a periodic basis and manifest on what they should promptly do to minimize the damage and maximize the profit.
So with the Kris guide, Panduraj could able to balance the equal distribution of wealth looking at the performance award one was doing better to expand the business outcome. Special recognition of monitory distribution happens when such spike benefits happen when the performance was done by going beyond the defined boundary.
This ownership model was working fine with the farmer family.
Now, Panduraja extended such a model with other families of the village. It motivates all the family members to put in their finest effort as they are merely gaining the profit. If they suffer a loss, it is absorbed by the other gains avenues. Now it has been one decade they are following this model.....
This Self-driven, Self-organized, shared purpose, outcome & impact, Value generation, one team-driven mindset enabling them to maximize the profit margin. Shareholders are also happy as they get their due service.
Do you think there is no conflict, no dispute, it is always there, but they are resolving all these to stay relevant in the market.
After Panduraja died, they keep Kris & their mother as their final authority to take the final call for any decision making. It was a democratic approach, but decision-making was taken by the Kris and their mother based on the data.
Sunday, 25 October 2020
Improving Remote Team Collaboration
Saturday, 24 October 2020
Giving P A U S E in your Conversation!
Sunday, 18 October 2020
Strengthening Self-Organizing Cross-Functional Scrum Team
A cross-functional team is a group of individuals with diverse functional expertise working toward a shared objective.
According to the Scrum Guide, a cross-functional team is a team that is organized around a product, a defined portion of a product, a service, or a customer value stream, and must include all competencies needed to accomplish their work without depending on others that are not part of the team.
What are the challenges of establishing such a self-organized cross-functional scrum team?
a) Silos mentality( BA, dev, test, Support )
b) Communication issue( BA, dev, test, Support )
c) Competency issue( BA, dev, test, Support )
d) Alignment issues( BA, dev, test, Support )
e) Conflicts are very high ( BA, dev, test, Support )
f) Ownership and commitment challenges( BA, dev, test, Support )
g) Mindset issue ( BA, dev, test, Support )
h) Collaboration issues ( BA, dev, test, Support )
i) Blame each other
j) Trust deficit, etc
How do we minimize these? Any structural approach we have to consider?
Look at any team and we will see a mixture of behaviors and personalities. Sometimes the individuals in a team can be complete opposites of each other and there will be conflicts; Other times there will be synergy in the team.
The ‘process’ part of the team will be very dependent on the behavior preferences that team members display.
The management psychologist Dr. Meredith Belbin was one of the first people formally to identify the different roles that people play in teams.
He recognized that in teams there are individuals who take action-oriented roles.
Some team members are more people-focused and others more cerebral.
Effective teams are made up of different types of people and they consist of different types of roles.
The mix of role types that play in a team determines their effectiveness.
These roles are
Shaper, Coordinator, Plant, Resource Investigator, Monitor Evaluator, Specialist, teamworker, Implementer, Completer Finisher
Although there are nine team roles, this doesn’t mean that a team needs nine individuals in it to be effective. Individuals will tend to have more than one preferred team role, so will generally occupy more than one role in the team.
When we look for a cross-functional self-organized high-performance scrum team, which evolves after a long cycle of the experiential exploration, we require to look at these 3 factors how effectively it has been matured.
When we recruit team members, if we can balance with these 3 factors, it would be advantageous for them to grow into a high-performance team, as the team will be apt to resolve any challenges they come across.
When I encounter the best scrum teams, I could certainly locate the traces of all these roles in a team.
I could able to trace who is Plant? who is matching the role of coordinator? etc. I start improving if these roles are missing.
When we start coaching, we also nurture these roles, based on what are the gaps, and what can be done to minimize those gaps.
This is a very good structure provided to structurally do team coaching and look for an opportunity.
All the challenges listed initially will slowly resolve when we have all these 9 roles developed and depicted with the scrum team.
We mostly look for a Scrum Master who is having a mixture of all these roles
[ A ‘teamworker’ is generally co-operative, easy to get along with, perceptive, and diplomatic. They are good listeners and are able to smooth over areas of friction within the team. They help keep the team together, particularly during times of stress or pressure.
A ‘shaper’ likes to challenge and drive things forward, enjoying the pressure and the reward of overcoming obstacles. They are able to identify patterns in discussions and in work undertaken and use this to push for change.
A ‘resource investigator’ is likely to be enthusiastic and charismatic, communicating well with others. They are able to explore opportunities, develop contacts, and instigate relationships.
The ‘implementer’ is reliable and well-disciplined, often conservative, and efficient at getting the job done. The implementer is able to reliably turn ideas into practical actions, and strategies into defined and manageable tasks.
People who fulfill the co-ordinator role are generally confident and responsible. They functionwell as a chairperson, helping to clarify goals and establish priorities. They encourage others to make decisions by delegating appropriately. ]
Saturday, 17 October 2020
Measuring the High-Performance team?
Friday, 2 October 2020
How do I Improve my Emotional Maturity?
This is one of the core competencies as a coach everyone is looking for - Emotional Maturity.
As a coach, we should have better emotional control.
Research at the National Institute of Mental Health by Candace Pert has demonstrated that emotions are particularly intimately related with neuropeptides, long-chain protein molecules that circulate throughout the organs of the body and act like “messenger molecules,” conveying information about what is happening in one part of the body throughout the entire system.
In her book, Molecules of Emotion (1997), Pert considers emotions to be a transformative link between mind and body, the mysterious quantum mechanical interface where information turns into matter and our bodies synthesize the chemicals of consciousness.
Emotional states such as anger, sorrow, depression, and joy can be influenced and even directed by us. Controlling the same is not easy. They do not work like switch! On or off!
In 1972, psychologist Paul Eckman suggested that there are six basic emotions that are universal throughout human cultures: fear, disgust, anger, surprise, happiness, and sadness.
In the 1980s, Robert Plutchik introduced another emotion classification system known as the “wheel of emotions.” This model demonstrated how different emotions can be combined or mixed together, much the way an artist mixes primary colors to create other colors.
In 1999, Eckman expanded his list to include a number of other basic emotions, including embarrassment, excitement, contempt, shame, pride, satisfaction, and amusement.
As a coach, we have to have better control of our Emotion.
What should we do to control our emotions better way? Same we can share with team members when we find the need improvement in emotional control.
For news of the heart, ask the face. -West African saying
Some of the things that I ampursuingg to control my emotions.
a) Avoid the trigger: Iinvariablys write down andobservee what triggers the emotional hijack. I actively watch out for all these trigger points. I consciously visualize later that how well I have to perform to avoid such triggers.
b) Express the emotion to someone: I have a few trusted companions whom I express my emotional expression whatever it is. After that, I feel Great. I have to vent out all these emotions, I do not bottle those up.
c) I tried not to react but this is something I am practicing to respond. Sometimes situations trigger me to react to others. I am practicing hard consciously to improve.
d) When I felt I am not able to control my emotions, I tried to think something else, keep quiet for some time! even in the middle of the discussion. I change the thoughts, think something different esp ocean, cute animals, etc.
e) Write a note about my emotional experience: A good retrospect on a notebook about an emotional journey help me to discover the emotional strengthening exercise.
f) Breathing, I do deep breathing exercises during the emotional high or low state,. It helps to divert attention to the breathing and control the emotions.
g) I am a believer in supernatural power. Sometimes it helps me as I have faith in place there. I ask for support, and I get the same.
h) Few quick physical exercises to change of blood flow in body! Exercise helps to better emotion control.
As all of us know it is not so easy, it is a life long endeavor to mature our emotional state. People say we will be happier when we have better emotional control.
“A man who is master of himself can end a sorrow as easily as he can invent a pleasure. I don’t want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.” - Oscar Wilde (1992, 88)
Sunday, 27 September 2020
Why Customer Collaboration is Painful? How can we improve?
Saturday, 26 September 2020
Organization Change Operation for a Fresh Drive?
My friend recently joins an organization as a Change Lead! New Position different office and unique change manager!
We were informally reviewing what are the factors we should study out and how can we set ourselves for success.
He takes up an assignment to know further about his new organization, to understand further about them so that he can position himself better.
He was a part of the team which is performing satisfactory, it seems. My friend wants to know the stuff “as it is”, so that he can perform the desirable change management proposal. To function better in the organization he has to recognize the as-is state of the team culture & Organization culture.
What he was using is called “The Cultural Web”, which identifies six connected elements that help to make up what Johnson and Scholes call the “paradigm”–the pattern or model–of the work environment.
I was not cognizant about this model, but when he was explaining, I felt wow, that is how it can help individuals to set themselves initially in a structural way which is a marvelous approach.
What precisely are all these factors to look upon?
Collect & Write about 20 pages on these stories & Myths. It will provide remarkably valuable insight.
2. Rituals and Routines: Observe and Collect daily actions and behaviors of individuals within the organization. Participate in numerous informal and formal meetings and note down different levels of discussion, roles in how people behave, exchange, and exhibits.
3. Symbols: The visual representation of the company; how they show up to both employees and individuals on the outside. It includes logos, office spaces, dress codes, and sometimes advertisements. How the organization and team feel about the symbols, logos, and colors.
4. Control Systems: Collect all the points through which the organization is getting controlled? The quality system, customer base, products, cash flow, etc how all these elements control the whole organization or different teams. These give valuable insights into the organization flow. How about the teams, team members getting punished, or recognized by whom for what? etc
5. Organisation Structures: Read out the prevailing organization structure. Unwritten power and influence that some members may exert, which likewise indicates whose contributions to the organization are most appreciated by those above them. Where the power centers, why, and how those influence the numerous decision making.
6. Power Structures: Note who are the individuals, are those who hold the strongest influence over decisions and commonly have the ultimate say on significant actions or changes.
Now he has gathered all the intelligence, So what?
As he is a Change agent into the new ambient, by integrating this system of analysis, he can identify himself and will be adequate to break free of ritual and belief systems within a company to achieve real change and innovation.
Whenever there is a fresh initiative that can start we need to address most of these below areas. The below areas are vital as this is how organizations operate. This is what culture is about.
For example, there is an initiative from Projectized organization, we have to move to the Productized organization. This is a new change organization that is willing to bring in to overcome some of the anti agile practices and raise the business agility in the delivery team.
1. Stories and Myths: What are the numerous challenges “projects based” approach experiences, What new stories we can bring into? How can rewrite some of the old stories with a new productized concept? Internally and externally what are the new development due to productized approaches can bring into.
2. Rituals and Routines: The projects based funding, execution, etc, what are numerous routine is going to transform when we move into the productized approach? What the platform we have which can communicate these changes in ritual and routine, explains betters. Who are the individuals who are responsible to bring those changes in rituals and routines?
3. Symbols: What are the new colors, logo for in product-based approach will look like. How do we advertise and brand within the team environment? The change from Project to product approach should have an original look feel and transmit some clear message.
4. Control Systems: What is the formal and informal approach to the new change. The pilot of the productized approach in a certain team, how the progress will be presented by whom etc information needs to be presented. How the decision will be taken and by whom need to highlight.
5. Organisation Structures: What will be the structure of the productization initiatives. Who are the core team members and who will make the pivotal decisions? A formal and information structure of the team members serving to fulfill some of the activities.
6. Power Structures: Who are the investors in this productization drive. How success will look like. Who drives through this approach?
This provides a structural thought process on how to roll out the change management plan for an initiative where success will be high as we are aligning with the organizational cultures.
All these aspects need to look into when we introduce fresh changes to the organization.
In this procedure, we are also taking care of the present organizational culture.
As the cultural paradigm influences and is influenced by the six inter-relating factors of the model, each aspect should be considered in terms of mapping out and designing the necessary changes (Johnson et al, 2011).
Understanding the dominant culture permits consideration of whether or not change can be accommodated within the culture of any given labor ward. Alternatively, if this is not possible, a shift in culture is definitely required (Johnson et al, 2011).
It also allows identification of what is problematic about the existing culture, indicating the type of change required and highlights aspects of culture that act as facilitators or block change (Johnson et al, 2011).
We all can try this? see how this approach enables us to become better whatever we are working on.....
How do we engage Product Owners or business owners at scrum events?
Most of the team members complain that their Product Owners and diverse business stakeholders are not actively partcipating in various scrum events.
They always ask for status information at the end of some intermission.
They are illiterate about the challenges team members are facing.
They are consistently seeking solutions, not interested to identify the team challenges, They invariably indicate that they are extremely busy and no time for such an arrangement.
It is crucial that we should co-create the solution with the Business. But business is not concerned to work out on such a thing. It is a challenge that every scrum team facing.
What will happen to such scrum team where Business stakeholders are not at all involved!
The team needs to demonstrate the benefits PO and Business owners will receive by investing time and effort. How PO & Business stakeholders will gain visibility, benefits due to scrum events participation. They should feel psychologically safe as IT is sometimes foreign to them. The team needs to onboard them with comfort. “Handle with care!”
We have few rules to adhere to which has established the sign of PO & Business stakeholders’ engagement gradually.
The facilitator has to steadily pursue this practice to be adhered to for some moment.
Rules of engagement do not have to be lengthy, but they must fit into team members or extender team members and be welcomed by all the team members.
Ensure PO/business stakeholders feel significant and relevant to the team’s needs.
Acknowledge their contribution and time spend on the team.
All product owners or business owners must participate in most of the scrum events( Convey repeatedly to them).
They must be shown an enthusiastic interest in what is going on with the project team. Try to establish that curiosity in their minds by doing some activities.
Ensure they have reviewed and contributed to the product development journey.
In the project learning session, PO/BO engagement challenges and progress need to examine. Come out with action points.
Every team member identifies points that can strengthen the Product Owner and business stakeholders’ engagement.
Each team members need to demonstrate that they do care about their PO and business stakeholders’ participants.
Have fun in the Scrum events, let us not merely talk business but some other topics also require to discuss. Plan such topics as a part of the discussion.
Respects their time. Facilitate well so that in minimal time, everyone can get maximum output.
Exercise all the tools to build transparency and visibility & Challenges etc information captured well.
Share your views and concerns in the room. Show each other courage and respect by including the tough conversations that require to be had immediately.
Ask better and thought-provoking questions. Ensure you have performed better home works and you have all the data to reinforce your conversation.
Be a good listener and empathize with the business stakeholders.
Manage negative feedback effectively. Sometimes, the team may get negative feedback from annoyed business stakeholders.
Demonstrated as a team, your dedication, commitment, and ownership always to business stakeholders
Do not attack, people, address the underlying process for improvement.
Sunday, 30 August 2020
Coaching Rotten Apples?
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According to psychologist Barbara Markway, ‘there’s simply no better way to learn about your thought processes than to write them d...